Grief’s Gift

By Carmen Allen

Deal Ends: Sat 20th June

Some losses shatter you in an instant. Others break you slowly. What do you do with the grief that comes piece by piece? One diagnosis. One phone call. One ordinary day that quietly becomes the dividing line between before and after. The kind of moment where everything familiar begins to unravel… and you’re left trying to hold together a life that no longer feels steady. And somewhere in the middle of it all, questions start to surface. Not loud at first… but persistent. Is God still here in this? Why does He feel so distant when I need Him most? For Carmen Allen, dementia and cancer didn’t steal her parents all at once — they took them slowly… memory by memory… until she was living through one gradual goodbye after another. And in the quiet ache of that unravelling, she often found herself asking: “God… where are You?” But tucked inside the fading were moments she didn’t understand until much later — small, unexpected glimpses of comfort and timing that didn’t feel like coincidence at all. A perfectly timed phone call. A stranger’s kindness. A sudden lift in the heaviness. She came to recognise them as what she now calls “hidden hellos” — quiet reminders that even in the silence, she wasn’t as alone as she felt. Grief’s Gift is a daughter’s raw story of heartbreak, faith stretched thin, and the surprising ways hope can begin to reappear — even in the middle of loss. This book will help you: • Recognise God’s presence even when He feels quiet • Find language for wrestling with your faith that doesn’t feel shameful • Experience the comfort of a story that mirrors your own Alongside her story, Grief’s Gift includes a practical tips section for daughters and caregivers — with checklists, guidance on aged care and government services, explanations of legal terminology, and the wisdom she wishes someone had shared with her sooner. “This is also my story; perhaps every reader’s story.” — Phillip Marshall “Having experienced much grief and loss in my own life this book was extremely relatable.” — Alison Lee “Grief's Gift by Carmen Allen gripped my heart the moment I began reading.” — Olga Beaman “Grief's Gift is the most honest, raw, authentic memoir I have ever read.” — Fiona Lawrence “This book had me laughing, crying and thinking deeply about where God’s love fits into the mess of our lives.” — Steve Allen “Anyone who has walked this path of grief is sure to find validation and comfort in reading this book.” — Lynn Menhennitt “This book shows there is hope in darkness and that God is present when we can’t see Him.” — Catherine Morgan Read more